I’ve had many times when I intuitively knew something to be right without truly understanding why. Call it a gut feeling.

And while knowing something is great, understanding how, and why it is that way is much better since it’ll lead to an even bigger realization when you’re capable of connecting all the dots.

Let me explain why any fool can know, but the point is to understand.

— People are more alike than different.
— People still have their own unique personalities.
— These different characters are due to genetics, our environment, and the experiences we go through.

Everyone knows at least one social chameleon personality who gets along great with each individual they meet from all walks of life, ranging from CEO’s, electricians, teachers, to doctors, and construction workers.

They aren’t always the strongest, nor the smartest. Nevertheless, they typically get done the most since they can modify their behavior to suit their environment.

Thus, the measure of intelligence is the ability to change and adapt to the needs of the circumstances. Let me explain why.

Every one of us can probably recall a moment in our lives where we went through a traumatic event that left a wound, and long-lasting impression for a long time before we could accept what happened, and move on.

Think of the loss of a loved one such as a family member, a friend, or pet.

That’s why healing is a process, not an event. Today I will explain the different steps to healing that can be distinguished from one another.

Painful experiences and events are part of the course for everyone, no matter how rich or successful we are. Sooner or later, we all get our personal hardships to deal with.

It’s critical that you turn your wounds into wisdom to prevent future pain, biases, and to balance your life in order to maintain your mental sanity.

Let me explain how to do this.

There will always be negative people who nag about every little thing we do, no matter what we decide to pursue in life.

Whether you try to please everyone, or be as authentic as possible, they’ll always be around. That’s because the issue lies with them, and not necessarily with you. They project their own weaknesses and insecurities onto others.

But what we can influence is how we respond to haters. Let me explain how.