Why the road to hell is paved with good intentions

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Kevin Mangelschots

Summary:

  • Simply having good intentions without carrying them out is meaningless.
  • Good aims can still cause unforeseen, and negative consequences.
  • Those with good purposes can change over time.
  1. Good intentions without action are meaningless

    The quote, “a good intention with a bad approach often gets a negative result” written in white letters on a brown background.

    You can have all the good intentions in the world, but they’re still worthless if you refuse to take action because you’re afraid, lazy, or simply don’t know how to.

    That’s not to say that behaving according to your values is the easy thing to do. On the contrary, it’s much easier to say how others, and yourself, should behave than to carry it out yourself. Yet, you should hold yourself to the same standards as you do others, and like you’re proclaiming.

  2. Good goals can still lead to unwanted consequences

    Hell is paved with good intentions, since just because you want to do good for the sake of others doesn’t mean that there can’t be unwanted, or negative outcomes either.

    It’s not always what we say that’s most critical, but even more important is the manner in which we convey that message. Even when we do everything right, people might still take it the wrong way. Life’s unpredictable. Times change, and people change. And what others do with the information and help they’re given is up to them.

    Still, if you truly want to assist someone then you should be mindful of how to approach, and how to deliver your message. Humans aren’t strictly rational individuals. Not at all, actually. We’re subjective, and heavily influenced by our emotions. That’s true for even the most rational of individuals.

  3. People are inherently lazy

    Woman sleeping on the sofa with her mouth open.

    We’re often more lazy than we like to admit. Perhaps because we like to think of ourselves as being better than we truly are, or because our ego that we’ve formed over the years desperately tries to protect itself from anything that tries to “attack” or dispute our beliefs.

    Perhaps this laziness is a leftover from times long past where food was scarce, and hence, so were energy sources. That means that not using any unnecessary energy can be considered a survival mechanism. And squandering too much time on subjects that don’t matter all that much to our immediate survival isn’t all that beneficial. Especially not if we worry about things we can’t change anyway.

  4. We are imperfect

     

    A sign reading “nobody is perfect”.

    Nobody is perfect. Hence, just because we start off with good ends in mind doesn’t mean that we can keep them, nor live up to them.

    Talk is cheap, and the easier part of the two compared to doing the right thing, even when it’s hard. Still, that doesn’t mean that doing what’s challenging, even when the temptation is there to take the easy way out, doesn’t offer any advantages either.

    It’ll teach us to become tougher, how to delay gratification, and how to persevere in the face of hardships. Ultimately, that’s what’s life about, since it isn’t always rainbows and butterflies.

  5. Good purposes can become corrupted

    There’s this popular quote, “you either die a hero, or you live long enough to see yourself become the villain” that conveys that sooner or later, everyone will become what they first despised. And there’s certainly some truth in that.

    Things that have been bothering you for too long, even though you detest them, can make you angry, cynical, and even vengeful. All the very things you despise and want to prevent yourself and others from becoming.

    Being surrounded with negativity all the time can become so stressful and mentally draining that we become lesser versions, and even a shell of our former selves. That’s why we should make it a point to wind down from time to time, and to do some things we enjoy in order to relax, such as gardening, reading, and exercising.

Frequently asked questions (FAQ)

The road to hell is paved with good intentions meaning

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The road to hell is paved with good intentions can have several meanings.
 
It can convey that many wrongdoings are carried out despite starting out with respectable purposes. This can be the case because we’re lazy, or get corrupted in the process of doing good. Furthermore, even good purposes can still lead to unintended, negative consequences.
 

Another potential explanation of employing said quote is to stress the importance that simply having good intentions isn’t good enough in life. As a matter of fact, it’s useless without behaving in accordance with your aims, and that you will be punished, or get issues down the road if you do not adhere to those values.

That’s why good intentions pave the road to hell at times.

The road to hell is paved with good intentions examples

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Some possible examples regarding how the road to hell is paved with good intentions are the following:

  • Despite trying to get your overweight friend to lose weight by telling them to exercise and to eat healthy for their own benefit, your friend decides to get mad.

    Moreover, they start to develop even worse eating habit as a result of being angered, sad, and feeling misunderstood.

    While your intentions were noble since you wanted them to lose weight because you love them, and want to see them healthy and doing better in life, the consequences weren’t as you expected. The result were unfortunately negative.

  • Another possible example is giving your cat too much food every time they’re hungry and asking to be fed.

    While taking care of your pet is good, and even your responsibility, letting them eat too much isn’t good for their overall health, their joints, their digestive system, and their organs.

    Your cat will be less fit, and die quicker than if it wasn’t overweight.

The road to hell is paved with good intentions origin

Image of Saint Bernard of Clairvaux.

The road to hell is paved with good intentions is thought to originate from Saint Bernard of Clairvaux. He was a Cistercian abbot who lived from 1090 to 1153.

Nevertheless, the earliest reference to him stating this quote was given almost 500 years later in the form of a written product, which means it’s possible that the expression doesn’t actually belong to him.

Bottom line

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The pathway to hell is paved with good intentions since we’re often lazy, get corrupted in the process, or because our actions have unforeseen detrimental consequences.

Still, that doesn’t mean that every experience is going to end up in disaster. But it does show that we must be careful, and that just having the best aims for those around us isn’t enough most of the time.